Hey, okay first of all I want you to tell you that you shouldn’t hate yourself. The first step to have confidence in yourself is to stop comparing yourself to others. It’s useless. You will never be that pretty girl from your class that all boys like, and you will never be that pretty model you saw in a magazine. I know it may seem depressing but it’s not. You are you. And that’s more than enough. A pretty person is somebody who is not only pretty from the outside, but also from the inside. I know you’ve been told this a hundred times “you are beautiful”, but you never believe it. Please do. Because it is true. Stop looking at the mirror and looking at your imperfections, NOBODY is perfect. No one. So the next time you look at yourself in the mirror, instead of being all miserable about your weight, say “Hey, I’m me. Who cares? I would rather have a great time with my family eating some cake, than counting the calories”. And believe you are strong, and you don’t need to take all those rude comments. Fuck anyone who thinks you are not enough. You ARE enough. You ARE beautiful. Be confident in your own skin, and try to be each day a little better. Try to be a better daughter, a better friend, a better girlfriend. Try to improve for YOU. Make yourself happy. “I hate your skirt. You are su ugly”. You know what you do in that case? You smile and say fuck you, I like my clothes, and I like myself, and I don’t care what you think about me, I’m happy for who I am. SMILE! life is too short to spend it thinking about the way you look. HAKUNA MATATA! do what makes you happy. If you aren’t confident about how you weigh, then lose weigh. Do it to make yourself happy. I have never ever seen anyone who is ugly with a smile on their face, wear it. Be proud of who you are. You are unique and life would be so boring if everybody were the same right? I love you.
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